You just want to be home.
You pull out your phone, and discover that the battery is dead. No problem, you think. If only you can find your charger.
Then you remember: You packed it in your checked luggage. You could ask to use her phone—but will you? Participants were taken to a public space and given the task of approaching strangers and asking to use their phone. The average estimate was The real question was why people underestimate compliance to a request by so much. I cried at your wedding.
Still thinking of you and me and what might have been after all those years…. Many times we comply. Because saying no to a request also threatens our face. If you comply, you can pat yourself on the back for doing a good deed. In fact, people have all sorts of misconceptions about making requests. In one study, Bohns and her colleagues asked participants to approach strangers with a request to fill out a survey. When a cash incentive was to be offered, the underestimation-of-compliance effect went away. People were just as willing to fill out a survey whether or not they got a monetary reward for doing so.
Are you going to risk rejection and ask to borrow a phone?
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Special thanks to my Summer History and Systems class at Georgia Gwinnett College for a fruitful discussion of the Bohns article, which inspired me to write this blog post. Bohns, V.
Mis understanding our influence over others: A review of the underestimation-of-compliance effect. Current Directions in Psychological Science, 25, I have always seen strangers pull people out of hard situations and have been on the giving and receiving end.
I have no fear of asking for help when needed -- but also find myself ensuring I am already prepared for the unexpected. Seeing the hospital torn down tears a small piece of my heart out. I'm rather short, and when I'm shopping at the grocery store sometimes the item I need is on an upper shelf.
So, I smile and politely ask the first tall-ish person I see, if he or she will hand me the item I can't reach, and I always get a smile back and the help I'm asking for. Conversely, if someone near me drops their pen or something, I'm happy to quickly retrieve it and hand it to them. I think its just being a normal human being to do a good turn when you can, like holding the door open for whoever might be behind you, or giving good directions when asked, etc. Its part of Scouting, teaching children that being polite, being a good citizen, and doing a good turn when you can, is important.
I guess most people don't participate in Scouting activities as kids anymore.
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